Lynea feels confused and frustrated by the mixed messages she gets from John. Likewise, Wallace seems to prioritise his time at work and his time at social activities over his time with Sharon. He assures her that they will always be together and he tells her how utterly devastated he would be if they ever split up.

On the one hand, Nikita is always telling Janey how much he loves her. Every time Casi brings up the issue Murdock accuses Cathlene of nagging. I have, however, never, in all my years of practice, ever received a referral for anyone suffering a 'commitment phobia' yet this problem seems to have reached epidemic proportions and is causing untold heartache for so many people. On the other hand, Monti refuses to take their relationship one step further. The Heartache of Loving a Commitment Phobic As a psychologist, I get referrals to help people with all kinds of phobias.

He refuses to talk about the issue, except to rationalize his stance and to tell Carlee that she is being too 'needy' and demanding. She seems to constantly come in at third on John's priorities and if she didn't arrange her timetable to fit in.

Beverley and Haleigh have been together for six years.

Sharon wants to get married, Dillie doesn't.